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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 12:47 am

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If I keep thinking about someone, when do I know if it's a crush? Does it have to be reasonable in order to qualify?

It doesn't have to be rational or based on logic (honestly, I don't see how its possible to be rational about crushes). Its just someone you find yourself thinking about alot and are attracted to.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 12:48 am

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You guys are hilarious.

and what do you mean the hikes are paying off? LOOOL

Oh nothing......

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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 12:50 am

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You guys are hilarious.

and what do you mean the hikes are paying off? LOOOL

Oh nothing......

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This time and this time I wont ask tell me tellll mee! loll
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 12:57 am

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Miles wrote:
If I keep thinking about someone, when do I know if it's a crush? Does it have to be reasonable in order to qualify?

It doesn't have to be rational or based on logic (honestly, I don't see how its possible to be rational about crushes). Its just someone you find yourself thinking about alot and are attracted to.
I see potential. It isn't so much based on logic as logic seems to get in the way. I've even told others about how great she seems, but I should probably pray for more wisdom.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 1:04 am

Prayer is good, but don't think about it too much. You won't know what kind of potential there is until you talk to her/ask her out. Smile
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 1:12 am

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Prayer is good, but don't think about it too much. You won't know what kind of potential there is until you talk to her/ask her out. Smile
Agreed. The internet complicates things, but that's no excuse to not at least talk with her. I wonder if she still uses Skype...
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 7:37 am

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Call #2 doesn't lie, Ethie. He's diggin' your chili Razz

This should be the theme of this topic

"Is someone digging your chili?"

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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 9:29 am

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Spunkn wrote:
Why do you find it hard to believe that this guy was hitting on you? Because that's exactly what he was doing.  He may be a good salesman, but he was definately hitting on you.

Because in all honesty, I think he is a really nice guy who is doing his job, nothing more then that.

Ethie.

He likes you. No one calls twice to check on the car he sold. Plus the compliments he gave you. Really. He likes you.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 9:29 am

Jess9450 wrote:
Paulie079 wrote:
Call #2 doesn't lie, Ethie. He's diggin' your chili Razz

This should be the theme of this topic

"Is someone digging your chili?"

Happy 

Hahah.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 10:46 am

Yeah seriously Ethie No car salespeople call 2 times to check up on you. Like your friend I have never gotten a call from any car salesmen that I bought a car from. The guy def trying to test the waters lol.

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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 1:10 pm

We all need to chip in and buy one of these for Ethie now

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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 2:32 pm

Oh m G!!! Hahaha
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 3:36 pm

That. Is. Amazing.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Fri Jul 12, 2013 6:09 pm

LOL...hahah..
I can make the Danish/Filipino Version.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 1:18 pm

Miles wrote:
little_tigress wrote:
Prayer is good, but don't think about it too much. You won't know what kind of potential there is until you talk to her/ask her out. Smile
Agreed. The internet complicates things, but that's no excuse to not at least talk with her. I wonder if she still uses Skype...

 Missed this.

Ask her Razz
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 1:55 pm

Crushes don't have to make sense, they don't even have to be based on knowing the person. A crush to me is what most people call "Love at first sight" where, something about them, just draws you in, makes you want to get to know them so much more.

It can be based on more than looks, but when you get to know more about them, it moves past a crush because it is moving past the simple view of that person, but, is a crush with potential.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 2:22 pm

Jess9450 wrote:
Paulie079 wrote:
Call #2 doesn't lie, Ethie. He's diggin' your chili Razz

This should be the theme of this topic

"Is someone digging your chili?"

Happy 
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Toro wrote:
Crushes don't have to make sense, they don't even have to be based on knowing the person. A crush to me is what most people call "Love at first sight" where, something about them, just draws you in, makes you want to get to know them so much more.

It can be based on more than looks, but when you get to know more about them, it moves past a crush because it is moving past the simple view of that person, but, is a crush with potential.
I guess I think of crushes as being more serious feelings for someone. Probably because I never admit to crushes until it is that way for me. So "love at first site" I wouldn't call a crush... but after getting to know someone for a while then it could become a crush.
But I'm just weird.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 2:24 pm

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I guess I think of crushes as being more serious feelings for someone. Probably because I never admit to crushes until it is that way for me. So "love at first site" I wouldn't call a crush... but after getting to know someone for a while then it could become a crush.
But I'm just weird.

Nah not weird, I'm the same way.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 2:36 pm

for me I go from intrigue,

"hmm.. he seems pretty cool. And he's easy on the eyes. I wonder what his story is..."

to crush

"ohhh I have butterflies in my tummy when he talks to me! "

to slightly more than crush

"I wanna go out with him!!"

to love

"I wanna marry him <3"

Aaand then if marriage does not occur, a breakup does and I start the whole cycle all over again with someone else.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 2:36 pm

Dandelions in the Rain wrote:

I guess I think of crushes as being more serious feelings for someone. Probably because I never admit to crushes until it is that way for me. So "love at first site" I wouldn't call a crush... but after getting to know someone for a while then it could become a crush.
But I'm just weird.

Different people have different definitions of "crush." It can be serious... I don't think feelings should be minimized.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 2:40 pm

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for me I go from intrigue,

"I wonder what's in his chili......"

to crush

"Wow, this chili is amazing.  I dig his chilli "

to slightly more than crush

"I want to eat his chili every day, he should cook for me"

to love

"Marry me and make lots of chili please"

Aaand then if he decides to stop making chili for me, a breakup does and I start the whole cycle all over again with someone else.

Fixed.  Sorry I couldn't help myself.  Laughing


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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 2:41 pm

after this thread I'll never be able to think of chili the same way again...
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 2:43 pm

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after this thread I'll never be able to think of chili the same way again...

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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 2:44 pm

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I guess I think of crushes as being more serious feelings for someone. Probably because I never admit to crushes until it is that way for me. So "love at first site" I wouldn't call a crush... but after getting to know someone for a while then it could become a crush.
But I'm just weird.

To me crushes are meaningless/harmless, no actual feelings involved.

To me a crush is an attraction, when you get to know more about them it becomes a crush with potential without there being any pressure of a relationship.

I crushed on my teacher back in the day but it had no potential nor was it based on anything other than her being cute.

A crush with potential can form into a great relationship or it could remain a strong friendship because the crush was born without expectations.

To me a crush with potential, is that fork in the road between close friendship and a possible romantic relationship. Unlike simply liking someone (based on a crush) and asking them on a date for coffee or whatever to get to know them a bit better before you enter a relationship.

At least that is how I see it, as a natural flirt I can have many crushes while single, but that doesn't mean because I flirt I expect anything to come of it.

Crushes are just, fun.... relationships are hard work, worth it with the right person, but crushes are far less demanding as there are no REAL emotions involved. A crush to me is, if anything, a strong attraction without true feelings invested.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you have a Crush on Anyone?   Sun Jul 14, 2013 2:54 pm

I guess, since I was in high school I've had the attitude that I won't have any pointless crushes, if there's nothing that can come of it, I don't bother having the crush or do my best to avoid having one.
I remember praying not to have a crush on an old friend (that I reconnected with online)... then I didn't talk to him for at least half a year... then we met and decided to start dating a few months later (A year after I prayed not to have a crush on him).

I know you said I'm not weird but I probably am.

Since I highly doubt most people would like me and I like them back (no hope with them); I just don't see the point in having crushes. (So they are very rare for me.) Very Happy
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